Friday, June 25, 2010


Well I would have thought Father's Day would have been easier on me... I am a mother..but it was a hard hard day.. Seeing my husband cry for his son was not easy. We miss Cj so much and the littlest things set us off. But the hardest is knowing that Callie will never know her Father and its just not right.

When looking at pictures...which I don't often.. I have a lot of Cj and Cecil or Brittany and Cecil I didn't have a lot of both of them with Cecil. So I made sure to get a picture this year.

This is a picture of Brittany and Cecil at our family fathers day cookout.
This is a picture of Callie at her dads grave on what would have been his first Fathers Day... She was sleeping and we didn't want to wake her but she brought a balloon by.

Sunday, May 9, 2010

Mother's Day 2010

Well I haven't written here in a few months.. Life has continued to go on but not without a lot of tears and sadness. Losing your child is such a hard hard thing to get through. Some days I don't know how I make it through but only with God's Help.

It is Mother's Day...the one child that made me a mother first is gone...gone to heaven. Some people tell me to quit feeling sorry for myself. Or it will get better. Or you MUST do this or that for you living child. JUST DO NOT GET IT!

My son has been gone for 14 weeks or 99 days if we want to be exact. My heart will always be missing a piece. I am not depressed I am very sad at times. But I am still living. I have a daughter and a grand daughter who I love. I have plans for the future.. So what if I have a rotten week on Mother's what if I truly do not want to celebrate today since I am not very happy.

I should not have to go to my son's grave on Mother's Day to "visit" him.

This is a picture from today...the only balloon I could find to put on his grave. The memorial park he is in only lets you do these things on special holidays.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

January 30, 2010

12/19/1989 - 1/30/2010
This is the day that has forever changed my life. My son Cj passed away. He was 20 years old and left behind a beautiful 6 week old daughter.

This is the hardest thing that I have ever gone through. I do not know how I will survive it but as of right now I take it one day at a time. Some times one hour at a time. I have had some good friends that have stood by me and some friends and family that never check in.

I know its hard for them..They do not know what to say. They ask me if I am okay? Okay? Seriously how is one okay when you lose your child. The one you grew and birthed out of your body? Am I living? Yes. Am I getting up each morning because I don't have a choice? Yes.

I miss Cj like crazy. I think the first two weeks I was kind of numb. The numbness has worn off and now I just have to go on.

Please don't be afraid to mention my son. CJ is his name and remember I LOVE to hear the memories. Some are very funny. I am having a hard time looking at pictures right now too. They hurt to much.

I love you Cj! You are forever in my heart and in my mind. I think of you every day and many times through the day. I know you are watching over us and I KNOW that I will see you again. I can't wait until then.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

New Years Eve 2009

New Year's Eve we went to my sister in laws house to celebrate with the family. We have been doing this together since the year it turned 2000. We have alot of laughs and a lot of food!

Callie doing what she does best :)

Brittany S and CJ

Sandy and Brittany

The gang-minus Darlene who was taking the picture.


Courtney and Ryan
Publish Post

Christmas Day 2009

Christmas Day was spent at home and at my mother in laws
Sandy, Brittany and Cecil

CJ, Brittany S and Callie

Brother and Sister love - CJ and Brittany

Grandma and Callie

Callie 1 week old

Christmas Eve

We spent Christmas Eve with my children and their boyfriend/girlfriends and now my grand daughter too.

Grandpa and Callie

Brittany S and CJ

Brittany and Austin

Grandma and Callie

Welcome Callie Paige

My precious granddaughter Callie Paige was born December 18, 2009 weighing in at 6lbs 6ozs and she is 20 inches long.


Callie and Mom Brittany S

Callie and Dad CJ

Grandma and Callie